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I hadn't spoken to her Adult singles dating in Benet lake, so when I saw her walk into the room I turned my head away and silently prayed, "Please don't don't sit at my table. And then, she sat right next to me. I'd like to say I handled that situation like a boss and confidently told her how nice it was to see her again. But that is not what I did.

Instead, I pretended that I didn't know her which she seemed to also be doing. We re-introduced ourselves like we never had that not-amazing, but-not-bad-either date. And I spent the next three hours kicking myself for being such a damn chicken.

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Could I have handled that situation better? Yeah, definitely.

And I really should have, says Pricilla Martinez, a life coach with Blush. But this isn't specific to me.

Lots of people feel awkward when they bump into someone they've dated before. Some might even run away like I essentially did.

Sometimes, that's okay, especially if your date mistreated you, or it didn't work Live chat telugu because they were a total jerk and you want nothing to do with them. It's also probably okay to avoid an ex-date if you randomly spot them on the street and likely won't see them again.

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So, she suggests treating ex-dates like you would any other acquaintance. You just say, 'Hey, how are you?

Thank you.

Happy to see you. If you have nothing to talk about, just say hi and move on.

Because, really, the longer you pretend that your awkward date never happened, the more stressful and weird running into that person is going to get. Trafford AL adult personals you've already made the same mistake I did and pretended not to know your ex-date, Martinez suggests embracing the awkward next time you see them.

If there are no hard feelings between you, then avoiding eye contact from across the room is actually pretty funny, Martinez says. Lean into it like it's a big joke. I didn't know what to say.

And that's exactly what I did. After the dinner, I felt so terrible about the way I handled seeing Helen that I texted her and apologized for being so weird.

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She really didn't remember our date. But hey, at least I tried. Once, when we were having sex, I caught my atte.

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